What is Tantric Therapy?
There are few reasons why people come to a Tantric therapy.
Women: One of the reasons is that people are looking to experience and understand Tantric sexuality. Many people have heard about Tantra, but would like to get a deeper understanding. Some people have attended Tantric workshops/events and now are looking for an hands on experience. Even if You have a partner with whom to practice, but both are beginners, it is often hard to get a deep experience. Women often have difficulties to orgasm and it takes time for the body to open up. And sometimes we need a proffesional to help us.
Second reason why women come to therapy is because they have either never had an orgasm or they can only have clitoral orgasms. Some women can only have orgasms while masturbating. About 30% of women have never had an orgasm and about 40% of of woman can are having hard time achieving one.
Thirds are women who have suffered some kind of emotional or physical trauma. They might have been raped or abused. There can be a negative attitude towards sexuality and lot's of shame and guilt stored inside. All these traumas can block woman's sexuality. For those women there can be often infections and pain in the Yoni.
There are no pills for the above mentioned conditions and this is why tantric therapy can help. Sexuality is a very important part of each and every woman. When a woman reaches her full orgasmic potential and clears the traumas that that are stored, it can change her whole life.
Men:The first and the most common one is women. Men should come to tantric therapy for women. "Happy wife, happy life":). Men and women have their differences in sexuality and one of them is that man is like a fire in the bed, he lights up fast, but also burns fast. Women on the other hand are like water. She takes time to warm up and when she is warm, she can stay like that a long time. But most men are done far before the woman warms up. This is one of the key reasons why women can't orgasm: because intercourses don't last long enough. An average intercourse lasts from 4-8 minutes (penetration part) and it takes about 20 minutes for a woman to warm up. Nobody teaches us these things and we often suffer in our sexuality because we don't realise where the problem is. Men start their sexuality usually with masturbating and/or they watch porn, which makes it all even worse. Porn has very little to do with real sex and it affects men's brain in a negative way. Men often become addicted to porn and ejaculation and sexualitt becomes all about that: how to release quickly. Through tantric practices and awarness this can be changed and both partners can enjoy their sex life.
A big issue for men is erectile disfunction. In UK 2.3 million men suffer from this condition. When going to a doctor, You can get some pills and a penis pump, which will probably work for a while. But that does not treat the reason why a man is suffering from this condition. This can also be either psychological or emotional or both. Even men in their 60ies or 70ies can usually be helped.
Another reason for men is they also want to get an experience in Tantric Sexuality. It is important to understand that orgasm and ejaculation are not one and the same thing. First You have an orgasm and then You ejaculate, one triggers the other. These effects come from two different parts of Your brain. When men learn to separate orgasm from an ejaculation they can become multiorgasmic and experience long states of pleasure during love making.
There are men who have experienced sexual abuse in their childhood. For these men sexuality can be very difficult, related to pain, guilt and shame. They can also have fears around intimacy. When they start to feel full body orgasms, the trauma can be healed and blockages from the body will be released. This makes a huge difference emotionally and physically.
Stress, anxiety and depression are very common in today's world. Tantric massage sessions are a great way to help You to become peaceful and feel joy and pleasure in life again. After a session men usually feel energized and at ease.
Please understand that Your healing mostly depends on You. A good therapist can help You to help Yourself, but we are the ones who need to do the work.